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 Post subject: Re: The Obner Divorce Curse Strikes Again
PostPosted: Wed Oct 11, 2017 7:19 pm 
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discostu wrote:
Well, the adjustment to living an insecure family life and the loneliness to ensue will be the hardest to overcome


man, this was some prescient shit right here - that first year alone in my apartment was as lonely and depressing a time as I've ever experienced. really glad to have made it through to the other side...

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 Post subject: Re: The Obner Divorce Curse Strikes Again
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Yail Bloor wrote:
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and a trip to HOTLANTA seems inevitable


Set your defibrillator to "barbecue"


I'd still really love to do this someday...

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 Post subject: Re: The Obner Divorce Curse Strikes Again
PostPosted: Thu Oct 12, 2017 5:13 pm 
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robotboy wrote:
im actually surprised this story has received this much negative reaction. i'm just curious what the opposers would have done if they were in my situation.


I had forgotten ALL ABOUT robotboy's story! Interesting revisiting it now given the current climate, as opposed to back in 2010.

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 Post subject: Re: The Obner Divorce Curse Strikes Again
PostPosted: Thu Oct 12, 2017 5:49 pm 
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Dalen wrote:
a significant number of people enter a second or marriage 'on the rebound' of a first or second divorce. Often the people concerned are vulnerable; they do not allow sufficient time to recover from their divorce or to get their priorities straight before taking their vows again. They enter their next marriage for the wrong reasons, not having internalized the lessons of their past experience. They are liable to repeat their mistakes, making them susceptible to similar conflicts


There is a lot LOT of truth in this. I'm not sure I'd go so far as to say if I had to do it all over again, I wouldn't have gotten married a second time - BUT, in retrospect, I do think it would have been better if I'd had a bigger gap of solo time between the two. One thing (well two, technically) is my stepkids are THE BEST - they've enabled me to have a deeper paternal connection in many ways than I've been able to have with my two children, due to the autism. I have a really great relationship with my sons - especially my youngest son, who is much more "mildly" autistic than his brother, but my stepson and stepdaughter have helped enrich my parental experience beyond what I had known before.

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