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 Post subject: Re: The Obner Divorce Curse Strikes Again
PostPosted: Sat Apr 10, 2010 11:35 am 
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wish you and your fam the best Bob

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 Post subject: Re: The Obner Divorce Curse Strikes Again
PostPosted: Sat Apr 10, 2010 11:38 am 
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damn dude, best of luck

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 Post subject: Re: The Obner Divorce Curse Strikes Again
PostPosted: Sat Apr 10, 2010 11:49 am 
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Hey man, no advice or perspective here, but best of luck to you and your family.

Same here, Bob. I have no doubt you'll handle this the best you can in regards to your kids and your own well being.

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PostPosted: Sat Apr 10, 2010 11:56 am 
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sorry to hear that bob

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 Post subject: Re: The Obner Divorce Curse Strikes Again
PostPosted: Sat Apr 10, 2010 12:11 pm 
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Damn Bob. We've never met but from live reports and a DECADE of reading your posts I think it's safe to say that you're a great person and an even better dad. I have zero doubts that your kids will be loved and cared for but selfishly, I think you'll eventually find a level of happiness that you may have previously thought unattainable.

Give it time man. This is just the next chapter.


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 Post subject: Re: The Obner Divorce Curse Strikes Again
PostPosted: Sat Apr 10, 2010 12:31 pm 
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Ditto what Derris just posted. Glad to hear that this is a mutual decision, but it's still gonna be hard. Remember to reach out to somebody/anybody on those bad days.


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 Post subject: Re: The Obner Divorce Curse Strikes Again
PostPosted: Sat Apr 10, 2010 12:37 pm 
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Ditto what Derris just posted. Glad to hear that this is a mutual decision, but it's still gonna be hard. Remember to reach out to somebody/anybody on those bad days.


Derris has the courage to be a drunken buffoon - which makes him poetic.

A genius.

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 Post subject: Re: The Obner Divorce Curse Strikes Again
PostPosted: Sat Apr 10, 2010 12:37 pm 
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This sucks, Bobbo.
But, as said before, the fact that you are both able to set aside your differences to do what's best for your kids should be a big help.

Hope that it all works out for the best for you and the fam, Bob. You got a lot of friends here.

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 Post subject: Re: The Obner Divorce Curse Strikes Again
PostPosted: Sat Apr 10, 2010 12:49 pm 
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Damn Bob. Sorry to hear.

After dealing w/ the stresses of triplets, I can definitely see how family needs can take their toll.

Best of luck and let me know if there is anything I can do.

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 Post subject: Re: The Obner Divorce Curse Strikes Again
PostPosted: Sat Apr 10, 2010 1:09 pm 
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I, for one, anxiously await pictures of Bob next to the mid-life crisis car of his choosing.

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 Post subject: Re: The Obner Divorce Curse Strikes Again
PostPosted: Sat Apr 10, 2010 1:18 pm 
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Damn dude. Sorry to hear it's not working out. Hopefully you'll both end up better off after this.

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 Post subject: Re: The Obner Divorce Curse Strikes Again
PostPosted: Sat Apr 10, 2010 1:36 pm 
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shit. bob, that sucks. hope things work out for the best for all of you.

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 Post subject: Re: The Obner Divorce Curse Strikes Again
PostPosted: Sat Apr 10, 2010 1:41 pm 
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Rick Derris Wrote:
I think you'll eventually find a level of happiness that you may have previously thought unattainable.


Could not agree with this more.

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 Post subject: Re: The Obner Divorce Curse Strikes Again
PostPosted: Sat Apr 10, 2010 1:48 pm 
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Thanks to all of you for your kind and supportive comments. This one of those times I'm beyond grateful for Obner.

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 Post subject: Re: The Obner Divorce Curse Strikes Again
PostPosted: Sat Apr 10, 2010 1:54 pm 
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Dalen Wrote:
Rick Derris Wrote:
I think you'll eventually find a level of happiness that you may have previously thought unattainable.


Could not agree with this more.

:cheers:


This really gives me hope for the future. If I'm being totally honest with myself, I haven't been truly happy for a long, long time.

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 Post subject: Re: The Obner Divorce Curse Strikes Again
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so does this mean you'll finally date me?

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 Post subject: Re: The Obner Divorce Curse Strikes Again
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Yep, your guileless transparency (even in digital form) has always been one of your appeals.

If, in this new era of anything-is-possible, it doesn't work out with Wenchlette, remember all those times in high school when you sneaked looks at the guys in the showers...

More seriously, good wishes and...We must be willing to get rid of the life we've planned, so as to have the life that is waiting for us. - Joseph Campbell (the well known fascist)

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 Post subject: Re: The Obner Divorce Curse Strikes Again
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Rick Derris Wrote:
Damn Bob. We've never met but from live reports and a DECADE of reading your posts I think it's safe to say that you're a great person and an even better dad. I have zero doubts that your kids will be loved and cared for but selfishly, I think you'll eventually find a level of happiness that you may have previously thought unattainable.

Give it time man. This is just the next chapter.


Couldn't have said it any better than this. Good luck to you and la famalia.

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 Post subject: Re: The Obner Divorce Curse Strikes Again
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I blame the mother in law living with you, and you for dropping the digital camera. ;)


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 Post subject: Re: The Obner Divorce Curse Strikes Again
PostPosted: Sat Apr 10, 2010 3:07 pm 
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I still say fuck the cowboys, but I honestly wish the best of luck to you Sir and the family during this crazy time.


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 Post subject: Re: The Obner Divorce Curse Strikes Again
PostPosted: Sat Apr 10, 2010 3:11 pm 
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hey sailor....call me.
i'll put this lesbo thing on hold for a long weekend.


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 Post subject: Re: The Obner Divorce Curse Strikes Again
PostPosted: Sat Apr 10, 2010 3:20 pm 
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Wow, Bob, the ladies are already lining up for a piece of FT. Nice.

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 Post subject: Re: The Obner Divorce Curse Strikes Again
PostPosted: Sat Apr 10, 2010 5:30 pm 
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Dalen Wrote:
Rick Derris Wrote:
I think you'll eventually find a level of happiness that you may have previously thought unattainable.


Could not agree with this more.

:cheers:


This really gives me hope for the future. If I'm being totally honest with myself, I haven't been truly happy for a long, long time.


I knew there was an explanation for the recent dearth of terrible puns and obscure '80s references. Hang in there and find your equilibrium Bob. Your kids' well being and your own happiness are your two major concerns right now, and they are not mutually exclusive. Best of luck.


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 Post subject: Re: The Obner Divorce Curse Strikes Again
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damn FT. sorry to hear although I hope and suspect you'll find more happiness. I hope the kids take it ok.


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