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The Obner Divorce Curse Strikes Again
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Author:  discostu [ Tue Jul 05, 2011 6:35 pm ]
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Tee Wrote:
toots Wrote:
i divorced reality in 07


I have you beat by seven years. Divorced reality sometime around the Florida recount. (Seriously.)


5 alter-egos and a heart surgery later...

Author:  billy g [ Tue Jul 05, 2011 8:11 pm ]
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Phew

When i saw
obner.org Wrote:
last post discostu


I was thinking damn that didn't last long

Author:  Fryxell [ Sat Jul 30, 2011 10:56 pm ]
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I feel like a truck ran over me.

(sorry contradiction for not getting back to you on your recommended album)

Author:  Stop Breathin' [ Sun Jul 31, 2011 1:04 am ]
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Oh, man

Author:  Fryxell [ Sun Jul 31, 2011 12:03 pm ]
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We have twin 4 month old daughters. What the fuck?

Author:  Senator LooGAR [ Sun Jul 31, 2011 12:16 pm ]
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Jesus, dude. That sucks. Bad.

Author:  timmyjoe42 [ Sun Jul 31, 2011 12:17 pm ]
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:(

Author:  DHRjericho [ Sun Jul 31, 2011 4:06 pm ]
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Damn. Sorry to hear this.

Author:  Prince of Darkness [ Sun Jul 31, 2011 4:27 pm ]
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My condolences. I'd say my sympathies, but we didn't have kids. We just had dogs and that was bad enough.

Author:  discostu [ Sun Jul 31, 2011 7:53 pm ]
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Fryxell, you sure your wife doesn't have Postpartum Depression? To leave after having twins 4 months ago seems seriously off.

Author:  DHRjericho [ Sun Jul 31, 2011 8:12 pm ]
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discostu Wrote:
Fryxell, you sure your wife doesn't have Postpartum Depression? To leave after having twins 4 months ago seems seriously off.


That's the first thing my wife said.

Author:  timmyjoe42 [ Sun Jul 31, 2011 9:06 pm ]
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That went thru my head too, but I don't know the first thing about your situation, other than it seems to be a surprise to you.

Author:  Fryxell [ Sun Jul 31, 2011 9:27 pm ]
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That's what I thought, too. I caught her cheating on me with an old boyfriend and she told me she hasn't been in love with me for years. She is refusing to seek any help, but is a very loving and attentive mother. This shit has been going on for 2 months now and she's still seeing that dude. I tried everything I could to make her happy, but she just doesn't want to be with me anymore. I gotta move on and do my best to raise these girls the right way. I know I can do it.

Author:  Senator LooGAR [ Sun Jul 31, 2011 9:30 pm ]
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Fryxell Wrote:
That's what I thought, too. I caught her cheating on me with an old boyfriend and she told me she hasn't been in love with me for years. She is refusing to seek any help, but is a very loving and attentive mother. This shit has been going on for 2 months now and she's still seeing that dude. I tried everything I could to make her happy, but she just doesn't want to be with me anymore. I gotta move on and do my best to raise these girls the right way. I know I can do it.


I hate to be the one to say it, but absent more information the first thing I'd recommend is a paternity test. And a lawyer who knows the local family court judge really, really well.

Author:  Fryxell [ Sun Jul 31, 2011 9:44 pm ]
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I know they're mine. IVF

Author:  timmyjoe42 [ Sun Jul 31, 2011 9:48 pm ]
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Mind boggling that she would do IVF when not in love. Did she think that was going to fix it or be a substitute for it? She sounds pretty selfish to me. (only knowing this small portion of the story)

Author:  discostu [ Sun Jul 31, 2011 11:43 pm ]
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shit man, that really sucks. hang in there...

Author:  Kingfish [ Mon Aug 01, 2011 12:32 am ]
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Fryxell, as a parent of multiples, I hate to hear this. Sorry dude.

Author:  Sex, Drugs, and Dave [ Mon Aug 01, 2011 1:06 am ]
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god that's a fucking bummer, sorry man...

Author:  shiv [ Mon Aug 01, 2011 1:21 am ]
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jesus. that's the worst one yet.

Author:  Stone [ Mon Aug 01, 2011 9:53 am ]
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Man, that sucks.

But try to keep your head up. If that's her attitude (and/or true feelings) then you're better off without her. AND you have two beautiful children out of the deal.

Author:  Flying Rabbit [ Mon Aug 01, 2011 10:21 am ]
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Dang. Sorry to hear this, Fryx. Surround yrself with some good people.

Author:  nobody [ Mon Aug 01, 2011 12:22 pm ]
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I feel to truly address this situation you need the following...

A paternity test, a lawyer, a 20 year old stripper and several bottles of whiskey.

Trust me, this will help.

Author:  Dalen [ Mon Aug 01, 2011 12:38 pm ]
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Fryxell, if she's going to treat you that way, fuck her. Focus all of your energies on being the best dad you can, cherishing every moment you get with the babies. That alone will get you over what she has done to you.

a weekend of unspeakable debauchery will also boost your confidence levels. treat yourself.

Author:  rogneeb [ Mon Aug 01, 2011 3:02 pm ]
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shiv Wrote:
jesus. that's the worst one yet.


is that a challenge?

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