Elvis Fu Wrote:
As for wallowing in sad sack shit in high school, get over it. Keep in mind, this is a generalization, not a personal attack on anyone's extraordinary gloom for whatever reason. But in high school, you have a unique opportunity to leap without looking, and it's unlikely you'll break your neck. High school is a good time to go out and try things and fail miserably, get into some trouble just to see what happens and how to get out of it while you have a safety net.
You're still a kid at that point in time, go raise what little hell you can. It's not telling someone what they should do, it's telling someone to go out there and live life, rather than sulking in your bedroom about how horrible life is. That whole "carpe diem" thing.
High School's also a time when some kids start really thinking about things; their lives, their parents, the state of the world, etc. I think it's pretty safe to say that there are probably quite a lot of H.S. kids who already have a lot to think about given their life situations---e.g. divorce of parents, money problems, and all the only possibly realities of life. If that's the situation in your life then it often follows that you seek out music that reflects that in some way.
To state the obvious here: music can be one of your best companions in hard times. I'd say Morrissey
reflects sadness, but then takes it and pokes fun at himself for it. It's like having a best friend who understands you but can cheer you up. The Cure's
Disintegration got me through some rough times in H.S.
I know this all sounds cheesy. It's just a subject that's a little dear to my heart. You can't "tell" kids they should be having the time of their lives in H.S.. Of course that's the ideal---but then again so is having two loving parents, comfortable finances, etc.---but it's just not the reality for a lot of them.