Jesus, man. You've got to be unstable to get out of a car in traffic to yell at a woman who just honked at you. Seriously, in the grand scheme of things, who cares? I don't give a shit what kind of day you've had, life sucks, grow up.

The closest incident I had was my grandfather's funeral. I was one of the cars in the funeral procession. I left a bit of space between my car and the one in front of me and some jerkoff zips beside me and gets in the procession. Yep, apparently he was in a hurry of some kind and then started tailgating and you could see him gesticulating in the car. So, similar to your wife, I start honking at the guy to get the fuck out of my grandfather's FUNERAL procession. He immediately peels out of the procession into a parking lot and starts screaming at me to "come and fucking get me, tough guy!" The hearst is a mere two cars ahead and this psycho is waving me on. I just shook my head because sometimes you just can't believe it.