Has anyone here ever cheated on their husband/wife?

pollysix · **Joined:** Tue Oct 26, 2004 2:56 am **Posts:** 5174

Nope. When I'm with someone it's because I actually really want to be with them, not someone else.

It's really not that complicated.

Elvis Fu · **Posted:** Tue Sep 27, 2005 11:53 pm

tentoze Wrote:

Jesus tap-dancing Christ, I thought my browser had been hijacked to a middle school website.

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Aural Fixation · **Posted:** Tue Sep 27, 2005 11:54 pm

I've never cheated on a boyfriend, but have been the "other woman".

cemeterypolka · **Joined:** Wed Jul 13, 2005 12:40 am **Posts:** 3473

Dalen Wrote:

Radcliffe Wrote:

Dunno, but from my perspective you should cheat and get cheated on while in your teens. There's no better time to do it - and there's no other way to learn how shitty it feels on either end of that kind of mistake

i feel the same way. it's all a part of growing up. and while it made me feel like shit afterwards, it was a very memorable experience in my life.

A part of growing up? You're going to defend me and say it's disrespectful when he makes a joke but you're encouraging this?
I'm confused.

Anyways. I don't need to cheat on someone or be cheated on in order to feel like i've matured. I've dealt with my own shit already with my biological mother and that's enough to make me realize how shitty one individual can make you feel.

I'm not going to go into all of that, but anyways. Other people have had it worse than me, but i've had my fair share of shit sofar. I don't think I need someone to cheat on me to let me know how horrible someone can make you feel.

cemeterypolka · **Joined:** Wed Jul 13, 2005 12:40 am **Posts:** 3473

Cotton Wrote:

cemeterypolka Wrote:

But i'm just not that type of person. I really don't want to waste the time and effort that it takes to get in a great relationship with someone and have either them or yourself fuck it all up.

this is probably why you don't have a penis.

I might as well have one.

:wink:

Aural Fixation · **Posted:** Tue Sep 27, 2005 11:59 pm

My teen post for the day: I like penis.

ayah · **Joined:** Mon Oct 25, 2004 12:03 pm **Posts:** 6402

Aural Fixation Wrote:

I've never cheated on a boyfriend, but have been the "other woman".

oooh, yeeaaaahhhhh.
i forgot about that.

Cotton · **Joined:** Mon Oct 25, 2004 6:12 pm **Posts:** 17155

first of all, if your boyfriend is joking about cheating on you on an interent board you frequent, you can be pretty sure you've got nothing to worry about.

also, you sound like the kind of girl that would really make a dude regret trying to pull some sly shit. I don't mean that in a bad way at all, I live and love a girl just like that right now. It's adorable. Unless I was the dumbass trying to pull said shit.

Charli · **Posted:** Wed Sep 28, 2005 12:03 am

Shit, yeah in high school/college a few times.

I was about 17(there's that age again), 19 and 21. Why did that happen every two years? That's a weird trend. hmm It was usually because I was young, stupid, and didn't want to be tied down once I was.

But I've also been cheated on. A few times, though one I've never had one hundred percent proof of to this day, but I"m pretty sure. It's a really really shitty thing to have happen.

I've never cheated on either of my husbands(uh yeah, this is my second marriage) and I've told JB many times that if he ever felt that desire then to just walk away from me and the marriage first, because I can't honestly live through being cheated on again.

One of those times I was, it literally broke my heart into pieces.

Plus I love my husband like crazy, so it would kill me.

And oh yeah, MNSAL, that really IS a shitty thing to do to Cemetary. Seriously, joke or not, you don't do shit like that to someone.

pollysix · **Joined:** Tue Oct 26, 2004 2:56 am **Posts:** 5174

cemeterypolka Wrote:

Dalen Wrote:

Radcliffe Wrote:

Dunno, but from my perspective you should cheat and get cheated on while in your teens. There's no better time to do it - and there's no other way to learn how shitty it feels on either end of that kind of mistake

i feel the same way. it's all a part of growing up. and while it made me feel like shit afterwards, it was a very memorable experience in my life.

A part of growing up? You're going to defend me and say it's disrespectful when he makes a joke but you're encouraging this?
I'm confused.

Anyways. I don't need to cheat on someone or be cheated on in order to feel like i've matured. I've dealt with my own shit already with my biological mother and that's enough to make me realize how shitty one individual can make you feel.

I'm not going to go into all of that, but anyways. Other people have had it worse than me, but i've had my fair share of shit sofar. I don't think I need someone to cheat on me to let me know how horrible someone can make you feel.

You're so totally right girl.

cemeterypolka · **Joined:** Wed Jul 13, 2005 12:40 am **Posts:** 3473

Cotton Wrote:

first of all, if your boyfriend is joking about cheating on you on an interent board you frequent, you can be pretty sure you've got nothing to worry about.

also, you sound like the kind of girl that would really make a dude regret trying to pull some sly shit. I don't mean that in a bad way at all, I live and love a girl just like that right now. It's adorable. Unless I was the dumbass trying to pull said shit.

Yeah. I'm not going to take shit from someone I expect to grant me the same level of respect that I give to them.
I've been lied to before and I will not stand for it.

ayah · **Joined:** Mon Oct 25, 2004 12:03 pm **Posts:** 6402

cemeterypolka Wrote:

I've been lied to before and I will not stand for it.

kick. ass.

Verbal Intercourse · **Posted:** Wed Sep 28, 2005 12:09 am

Cotton Wrote:

first of all, if your boyfriend is joking about cheating on you on an interent board you frequent, you can be pretty sure you've got nothing to worry about.

Thank you, finally. Jesus, all you other people that are freaking out -- if I was really getting together with other people, do you think I'd be fucking around about it on a message board that my girlfriend obviously reads? It's a joke -- she knows how to take them AND make them and if you think it's "disrespectful" then you really do need to learn to handle sarcasm better.

cemeterypolka · **Joined:** Wed Jul 13, 2005 12:40 am **Posts:** 3473

Makes No Sense At All Wrote:

Cotton Wrote:

first of all, if your boyfriend is joking about cheating on you on an interent board you frequent, you can be pretty sure you've got nothing to worry about.

Thank you, finally. Jesus, all you other people that are freaking out -- if I was really getting together with other people, do you think I'd be fucking around about it on a message board that my girlfriend obviously reads? It's a joke -- she knows how to take them AND make them and if you think it's "disrespectful" then you really do need to learn to handle sarcasm better.

I can take jokes, you know it, I know it. We've discussed these sort of jokes before. These are the ones that I do not find funny at all.

Just saying. Go do your homework like you told me you were doing.

Aural Fixation · **Posted:** Wed Sep 28, 2005 12:12 am

Boys are dumb.

Charli · **Posted:** Wed Sep 28, 2005 12:13 am

cemeterypolka Wrote:

Makes No Sense At All Wrote:

Cotton Wrote:

first of all, if your boyfriend is joking about cheating on you on an interent board you frequent, you can be pretty sure you've got nothing to worry about.

Thank you, finally. Jesus, all you other people that are freaking out -- if I was really getting together with other people, do you think I'd be fucking around about it on a message board that my girlfriend obviously reads? It's a joke -- she knows how to take them AND make them and if you think it's "disrespectful" then you really do need to learn to handle sarcasm better.

I can take jokes, you know it, I know it. We've discussed these sort of jokes before. These are the ones that I do not find funny at all.

Just saying. Go do your homework like you told me you were doing.

Oh my god, that last comment made me laugh my ass off just now.

That was just too cute.

HaqDiesel · **Posted:** Wed Sep 28, 2005 12:25 am

I once cheated on a test, and I once put the cheat in the crisper, but I've never cheated on a female.

tentoze · **Posted:** Wed Sep 28, 2005 12:25 am

cemeterypolka Wrote:

Quote:

this is probably why you don't have a penis.

I might as well have one.

:wink:

pics plz k thx

Verbal Intercourse · **Posted:** Wed Sep 28, 2005 12:27 am

HaqDiesel Wrote:

I once cheated on a test

Just once? That's pretty good.

pollysix · **Joined:** Tue Oct 26, 2004 2:56 am **Posts:** 5174

cemeterypolka Wrote:

Go do your homework like you told me you were doing.

heh heh

Patrick Bateman · **Posted:** Wed Sep 28, 2005 12:41 am

[quote="I cheat on my girlfriend all the time, by the way.[/quote]

for whatever its worth, that line made me lol

of all my guy friends with steady gf's only 1 doesnt cheat regularly

ive never cheated, the closest thing i've done is make out with a girl when i was in love but not in a relationship with another girl, and i felt sick to my stomach for about 2 weeks after

i could never be a cheater

tehobner · **Joined:** Mon Oct 25, 2004 8:48 pm **Posts:** 4479

nope.

fickerson · **Posted:** Wed Sep 28, 2005 12:49 am

Aural Fixation Wrote:

I've only cheated on a boyfriend once, but have been the "other woman" more than a few times.

Dalen · **Posted:** Wed Sep 28, 2005 12:56 am

cemeterypolka Wrote:

Dalen Wrote:

Radcliffe Wrote:

Dunno, but from my perspective you should cheat and get cheated on while in your teens. There's no better time to do it - and there's no other way to learn how shitty it feels on either end of that kind of mistake

i feel the same way. it's all a part of growing up. and while it made me feel like shit afterwards, it was a very memorable experience in my life.

A part of growing up? You're going to defend me and say it's disrespectful when he makes a joke but you're encouraging this?
I'm confused.

publicly dissing you like that isn't cool. that's what i was responding too.

my feelings towards cheating and being 17 are a whole nutha issue.

tentoze · **Posted:** Wed Sep 28, 2005 12:59 am

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