this whole thing is tricky. i feel like i've lost more friends than most people ever get a chance to make, through moving/growing/drifting/blowing/etc... sometimes things come back together miraculously after 10 years. Sometimes you see a person you used to hate at a wedding, get smashed with them, then remember why you hated them to begin with. this is life.

Yeah, I do that to people all the time. I went through a period of CFS, and pretty much lost touch with everyone I knew.