pumachik Wrote:
timmyjoe42 Wrote:
you need to make your move right when you decide you like him
why is it that guys complain girls don't hit on them, so when we do, and we make our move- they freak out? i'm aggressive (to a certain extent) and i want someone, i go for it. they end up being weird about it though b/c they're "not used to girls hitting on them or making the first move." hel-LO we don't live in the 50s anymore!
so i say fuck it. you all say you want a cool girl who's smart and independent and isn't needy, then when you do get her- you get intimidated. pussies. then you just end up going for the ditsy gold-digging sluts.
seriously.
Here's the reason:
Unless a gal is a total slag, she's not going to jump on a man (in the most literal sense of that word) to show her interest in current and future "dating", "relationship", "sexxing", "etc." Rather, she's going to be more subtle about -- an infrequent lengthened blink, or a titter emitted over a smile at some half-wittcism pronounced by the man for whose loins the doll's loins are girding.
Problem is, men don't pick up on subtlety too well. (That's why so many men end up in patently short-term, fucks-only liaison with women. They go for the slag, because the slags speak their language (so, it's not like it's all against the fellow's will; in fact, the opposite).)
See, men don't have a pocket electronic translator to see if a woman's action -- say, dangling her heel off her foot -- is a flirtation, or just an ill-fit shoe. But, it doesn't resemble man-to-woman flirtation, which is the everdirect "plate of dick". Let me open that door for you -- now, how 'bout some dick? Could you use another beer -- and, how 'bout some dick?
It's all so complicated.
Not for me, really, not that it's gotten me very far... But other men.
Me? I figure it out pretty quickly, but still twenty minutes too late. And, I mean,
literally twenty minutes.
