NMR: Questions for divorced (or not) folks

ayah · **Joined:** Mon Oct 25, 2004 12:03 pm **Posts:** 6402

red Wrote:

hey, admitting to a failed marriage isn't an easy thing. i just think that if i was looking at a used wedding dress, i'd want to know why it was being sold. but then again, i'm really nosey and look for a story behind everything. eh.

no fireplace in your apartment. eh?

red · **Joined:** Fri Jun 17, 2005 5:34 am **Posts:** 5009

ayah Wrote:

red Wrote:

hey, admitting to a failed marriage isn't an easy thing. i just think that if i was looking at a used wedding dress, i'd want to know why it was being sold. but then again, i'm really nosey and look for a story behind everything. eh.

no fireplace in your apartment. eh?

nope. i could probably set it on fire in the alley, though.

hey, i've started writing back to you, but it's amazing how long these PMs can get.

billy g · **Joined:** Mon Oct 25, 2004 1:41 pm **Posts:** 9020

red Wrote:

Yail Bloor Wrote:

red Wrote:

I want to sell my wedding dress, but I'm worried that someone will ask me why I'm selling it. I don't want the dress to seem cursed... "My husband left me", "my marriage crumbled", "my husband's dead", "i never want to be that fat again". I don't know... not very good sales pitches in my opinion.

Not for nothing, but this sounds more like a YOU problem.

Just sayin'.

hey, admitting to a failed marriage isn't an easy thing. i just think that if i was looking at a used wedding dress, i'd want to know why it was being sold. but then again, i'm really nosey and look for a story behind everything. eh.

That is very nosey. I wouldn't dream of asking someone I didn't know that type of question and since I didn't know her I wouldn't give a rat's ass why she was selling the dress in the first place. I'd just assume it was because she neither needed it nor wanted it anymore.

And I kinda agree with bloor. Don't around half of marriages end in divorce these days. I don't think there's some huge personal stigma attached to being divorced. Seems like you're still dealing with the issue.

ayah · **Joined:** Mon Oct 25, 2004 12:03 pm **Posts:** 6402

red Wrote:

hey, i've started writing back to you, but it's amazing how long these PMs can get.

cool.
i started feeling bad about all of the rambling.
too bad we can't meet for drinks.

Cap'n Squirrgle · **Posted:** Mon May 01, 2006 2:08 pm

ayah Wrote:

red Wrote:

hey, i've started writing back to you, but it's amazing how long these PMs can get.

too bad we can't meet for drinks.

...beware. With that voice, she could tell you to jump off a cliff and you'd DO it. Shit's dangerous.

ayah · **Joined:** Mon Oct 25, 2004 12:03 pm **Posts:** 6402

i'm sure red and i could meet on some awesome common ground and as far as her telling me what to do and me doing it....i fail to see the problem.

red · **Joined:** Fri Jun 17, 2005 5:34 am **Posts:** 5009

billy g Wrote:

Seems like you're still dealing with the issue.

and you are correct. i've been separated for almost two years, divorced for one year and now it's bothering me. what the f*ck.

anyway...

ayah, i suggested western pa in another thread... you never got back to me. haha...

ayah · **Joined:** Mon Oct 25, 2004 12:03 pm **Posts:** 6402

red Wrote:

billy g Wrote:

Seems like you're still dealing with the issue.

and you are correct. i've been separated for almost two years, divorced for one year and now it's bothering me. what the f*ck.

i completely get this.
we'll talk.
and i'm looking for a map as we speak.

Cap'n Squirrgle · **Posted:** Mon May 01, 2006 3:52 pm

ayah Wrote:

red Wrote:

billy g Wrote:

Seems like you're still dealing with the issue.

and you are correct. i've been separated for almost two years, divorced for one year and now it's bothering me. what the f*ck.

i completely get this.
we'll talk.
and i'm looking for my car keys as we speak.

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