Just make your dates with him very early, or very late, and live your life with any other lovers in the in between time. Take care of your needs, and cultivate that virgin ass like a japanese gardener cultivates a bonsai.

Then plunge your dick into his ass with little to no warning.

OPA, I wish I could treat women like you treat your men.

Now I know why you chose teaching as a profession. I wish I could motivate this good.

Tell it to CPS, after mid June I'm jobless again.

If it wasn't for Deena, I'd be living in a van, down by the river.

But seriously, this kid digs you, just cue up 'More Than Words', get him drunk, and everything will suss itself out.

I didn't really know it was possible to vomit without eating for two days. Guess I know now.

You're such a christian.

okay, now it's time for the real answer.

this guy's a newbie.
it's a fact that won't change and no matter how hard he tries to let go there's a lot of stuff he has to go through.
if you want to get involved with this you will have to be patient and deal with his ambivalence about the whole thing and the fact that he could freak and jump ship. maybe not, though. you just have to know that this situation is loaded (i know...loaded...haha) and be ready for anything.

me personally? at this point in my life i wouldn't want to deal with someone just coming out or someone claiming to be bisexual. i know who i am and what i want and just couldn't deal with all of the drama. it's not a judgement, just a preference.

Perhaps, I'll give him another shot. I like him a lot. I'm at a point in my life now where it'd be nice to finally be with someone permanently and this guy has a lot of the same values as I do. We get along perfectly and he's exactly the type of guy I see myself with. If we could only get past his phobia of coming out, it'd be perfect. He's honest with me and I trust him but at the same time, I don't want this to become a mess.

We'll see. Perhaps I'll set up a date with him and we'll talk.

Thanks guys.

haha. i guess that's slightly better than the homophobic homosexual mormon this thread is about.

god i can't stop lol

Freudian slip? Or planned...

I don't want to hang out with either brand.

I mean there's people who are christians, and then there's people who play it to the hilt.

I'd rather just hang out with good people, however you want to define that.

I suck at giving advice on mormon/homosexual relationships. Straight agnostic/straight Christian, I can probably help.

Dude, didn't it take you about 30 years to come outta the closet? Give the lad a break.

If you actually said the first quote to him, then too late on the second.

I didn't say, I don't want to hurt his feelings.