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jewels santana · **Joined:** Thu Nov 04, 2004 2:36 pm **Posts:** 10198

dnorwood Wrote:

Sen. Ol Vodka Tits LooGAR Wrote:

jewels santana Wrote:

this shit makes me scared to ever fall in love again.

Cue up the last track of that new Truckers album Jewelz.

damn fine song, Senator.

i don't know that song.

timmyjoe42 · **Posted:** Fri Jun 09, 2006 4:44 pm

Chuck(e)D Wrote:

My first wedding anniversary as a divorced guy was May 25th.
Our dating anniversary (would have been 10 years) will be November 11th.
The year anniversary of her cheating on me will be November 7th-9th . . . something like that.
The year anniversary of her leaving me will be November 25th.
The year anniversary of the divorce will be March 14th.

. . . and then there are all those other dates that will stick in the head, like her birthday. Maybe time will help me forget those dates, maybe not.

You call yourself a man?
What are you doing remembering all those dates in the first place?

Prince of Darkness · **Joined:** Mon Oct 25, 2004 11:41 am **Posts:** 11048

He's gotta make sure he keeps the dates straight so he doesn't bang the same harem member on that same date year after year. Helps to put distance between the memories and the man.

d · **Posted:** Fri Jun 09, 2006 4:48 pm

timmyjoe42 Wrote:

Chuck(e)D Wrote:

My first wedding anniversary as a divorced guy was May 25th.
Our dating anniversary (would have been 10 years) will be November 11th.
The year anniversary of her cheating on me will be November 7th-9th . . . something like that.
The year anniversary of her leaving me will be November 25th.
The year anniversary of the divorce will be March 14th.

. . . and then there are all those other dates that will stick in the head, like her birthday. Maybe time will help me forget those dates, maybe not.

You call yourself a man?
What are you doing remembering all those dates in the first place?

I hope you're joking.

Charli · **Posted:** Fri Jun 09, 2006 4:59 pm

Stone Wrote:

Chuck(e)D Wrote:

My first wedding anniversary as a divorced guy was May 25th.
Our dating anniversary (would have been 10 years) will be November 11th.
The year anniversary of her cheating on me will be November 7th-9th . . . something like that.
The year anniversary of her leaving me will be November 25th.
The year anniversary of the divorce will be March 14th.

. . . and then there are all those other dates that will stick in the head, like her birthday. Maybe time will help me forget those dates, maybe not.

Time will help you forget, unless you really focus on them. I've been divorced 5 years (and am now remarried), and the past couple years I didn't remember the anniversary at all until a few days after, when something triggered a reminder. The first couple years were hard, but I would advise getting through the grief of the divorce, which is hard, and then do what you can to move on with your life. Certain things you'll never forget, but you can't let things like that rule your life and bring you down.

Beautiful words Stone.

I could have written that verbatim myself.

jewels santana · **Joined:** Thu Nov 04, 2004 2:36 pm **Posts:** 10198

is it me or have roles reversed in the last 10 years or so

guys are the ones who remember all the dates (first meeting, first kiss, ect . . ,)
and girls are the ones doing more cheating
and girls are the ones who fear commitment

obviously this isnt' accross the board . . .
but i've noticed it.

Chuck D · **Posted:** Fri Jun 09, 2006 5:25 pm

Prince of Darkness Wrote:

He's gotta make sure he keeps the dates straight so he doesn't bang the same harem member on that same date year after year. Helps to put distance between the memories and the man.

awesome

d · **Posted:** Fri Jun 09, 2006 5:26 pm

jewels santana Wrote:

is it me or have roles reversed in the last 10 years or so

guys are the ones who remember all the dates (first meeting, first kiss, ect . . ,)
and girls are the ones doing more cheating
and girls are the ones who fear commitment

obviously this isnt' accross the board . . .
but i've noticed it.

Don't know if I'd say they've reversed, but I think women have gotten a lot more selfish over the years, which is good and bad. Good, because I think for a long time, women didn't think they "deserved" certain things in life and kept their desires/feelings hidden. Now that we've moved ahead, thanks to the womens rights movement, I think a lot of women have now decided that they want what they want, when they want it. The bad part of it is when they're selfish to the point of doing the things they've decried men doing for years, like cheating. But I will also say (not saying it's right AT ALL) that typically, women cheat for different reasons than men.

As for remembering dates, at least with me and my husband, no. My husband remembers my birthday and our anniversary, but that's about it. I still remember what I was wearing the first time I met my husband, but I know he doesn't. He can tell me the details of every Bugs Bunny cartoon ever aired though.

jewels santana · **Joined:** Thu Nov 04, 2004 2:36 pm **Posts:** 10198

i'm a hopeless romantic.
i remember every damn thing.

shit sucks.

FT · **Posted:** Fri Jun 09, 2006 7:25 pm

fROSTED Wrote:

My 14th wedding anniversary is in September. I'm so out of touch.

My 14th is in June, so I'm even MORE out of touch. So, which of us Obnish currently holds the distinction of being married the longest?

FT · **Posted:** Fri Jun 09, 2006 7:33 pm

dnorwood Wrote:

Now that we've moved ahead, thanks to the womens rights movement, I think a lot of women have now decided that they want what they want, when they want it.

d · **Posted:** Fri Jun 09, 2006 7:35 pm

I can't compete... I've only been hitched for 10 years (but we've been together for 15).

red · **Joined:** Fri Jun 17, 2005 5:34 am **Posts:** 5009

Chuck(e)D Wrote:

My first wedding anniversary as a divorced guy was May 25th.
Our dating anniversary (would have been 10 years) will be November 11th.
The year anniversary of her cheating on me will be November 7th-9th . . . something like that.
The year anniversary of her leaving me will be November 25th.
The year anniversary of the divorce will be March 14th.

. . . and then there are all those other dates that will stick in the head, like her birthday. Maybe time will help me forget those dates, maybe not.

I'm so glad that I'm not the only one who has done this ^^^. I remember every date. Ugh. Tuesday is our one year divorce anniversary. I'm not quite sure how I feel yet.

My 29th birthday was the first in eight years that he forgot. He has probably forgotten every "important" date, yet it's etched in my memory.

katie, a princess · **Posted:** Fri Jun 09, 2006 9:20 pm

i hate it when pitchfork acts like they have an exclusive when they really don't.

edit: huzzah this has been amended.

no guru · **Posted:** Fri Jun 09, 2006 9:32 pm

dnorwood Wrote:

He can tell me the details of every Bugs Bunny cartoon ever aired though.

Well frig yeah, some things are IMPORTANT.

billy g · **Joined:** Mon Oct 25, 2004 1:41 pm **Posts:** 9020

tentoze Wrote:

I'd rather get divorced (again) than lose my wallet any day.

my wallet and I were reunited this morning. Today is off to a wonderful start. :banana:

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