i sent a girl to therapy

Prince of Darkness · **Joined:** Mon Oct 25, 2004 11:41 am **Posts:** 11048

discostu Wrote:

I've done the same thing, except I'm not bragging. I'm very torn up about it. The worst part about it is that I didn't realize I was the reason she was so unhappy until it was too late.

So, this weekend I'll be holding on to any hope that my relationship is savageable because for the past year, my dumb ass, emotionally numb/complacent/chronically depressed-self caused irrepairable pain to my beautiful and very cool girlfriend of nearly two years. She's going to Chicago this weekend to leave me wallowing in misery. She warned me dozens of times to change and I didn't take it to heart or have the will to change until it was too late.

Well bubba, apologies go along way, but actions go further, so i would recommend both. Keeping my fingers crossed for you.

discostu · **Posted:** Thu Oct 12, 2006 8:41 pm

Yeah, Phil, I know. Trouble is she's kicking me out of the house we share so she can have some space. I'm not going to have much of an opportunity to show her that I can be a good person and fulfill her needs if I'm not going to be around.

Prince of Darkness · **Joined:** Mon Oct 25, 2004 11:41 am **Posts:** 11048

Oh damn.

Then i guess it's time for beggin and bribin.

Black Magic Putin · **Posted:** Thu Oct 12, 2006 8:46 pm

discostu Wrote:

Yeah, Phil, I know. Trouble is she's kicking me out of the house we share so she can have some space. I'm not going to have much of an opportunity to show her that I can be a good person and fulfill her needs if I'm not going to be around.

holy whatthefuck. this was unexpected.

Prince of Darkness · **Joined:** Mon Oct 25, 2004 11:41 am **Posts:** 11048

When girlfriends attack...

discostu · **Posted:** Thu Oct 12, 2006 8:51 pm

Black Magic Putin · **Posted:** Thu Oct 12, 2006 9:07 pm

you gotta get healthy before you can have a healthy relationship, i guess.

Mick · **Posted:** Tue Oct 17, 2006 9:44 am

I've caused two separate girls to attempt suicide on two separate occasions. (but they barely even tried properly).

cherry chapstick · **Posted:** Tue Oct 17, 2006 9:51 am

Mick the Stripper Wrote:

I've caused two separate girls to attempt suicide on two separate occasions. (but they barely even tried properly).

I should get a little bit of credit for the first one.

Sketch · **Posted:** Tue Oct 17, 2006 10:24 am

This guy has crack Wrote:

you gotta get healthy before you can have a healthy relationship, i guess.

Truth.

Easier said than done, though.

Kingfish · **Posted:** Tue Oct 17, 2006 10:53 am

For some reason my girlfriends became raging sluts after me. I guess I knew how to unlock their interwhore.

Aural Fixation · **Posted:** Tue Oct 17, 2006 11:49 am

Old Kingfish Lee Wrote:

For some reason my girlfriends became raging sluts after me. I guess I knew how to unlock their interwhore.

Or they had to make up for what they didn't get from you?

*ducking*

Kingfish · **Posted:** Tue Oct 17, 2006 11:57 am

Aural Fixation Wrote:

Old Kingfish Lee Wrote:

For some reason my girlfriends became raging sluts after me. I guess I knew how to unlock their interwhore.

Or they had to make up for what they didn't get from you?

*ducking*

Actually, probably closer to the truth. :wink:

red · **Joined:** Fri Jun 17, 2005 5:34 am **Posts:** 5009

discostu Wrote:

Yeah, Phil, I know. Trouble is she's kicking me out of the house we share so she can have some space. I'm not going to have much of an opportunity to show her that I can be a good person and fulfill her needs if I'm not going to be around.

Sorry to hear this.

You need to make sure you're being a good person for yourself above her. What that other guy said, you can't have a healthy relationship until you are healthy. Good luck. It's a rough road.

katie, a princess · **Posted:** Tue Oct 17, 2006 12:15 pm

Prince of Darkness Wrote:

When girlfriends attack...

because we are all a savage species

Kingfish · **Posted:** Tue Oct 17, 2006 12:19 pm

katie, a princess Wrote:

Prince of Darkness Wrote:

When girlfriends attack...

because we are all a savage species

Nothing like a women scorned for Sega.

jewels santana · **Joined:** Thu Nov 04, 2004 2:36 pm **Posts:** 10198

Old Kingfish Lee Wrote:

katie, a princess Wrote:

Prince of Darkness Wrote:

When girlfriends attack...

because we are all a savage species

Nothing like a women scorned for Sega.

haftford? the whale?

discostu · **Posted:** Tue Oct 24, 2006 2:06 pm

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gauchebag · **Posted:** Tue Oct 24, 2006 2:13 pm

discostu Wrote:

This is fucking horrible. I'm a bawling mess at home. I've got to move out.

sounds like you've got to do something brother...i suggest you act before things get worse (if that is in fact possible.) sticking around unhealthy situations does not lead to health.

timmyjoe42 · **Posted:** Tue Oct 24, 2006 2:28 pm

Removing yourself from the situation is the first step for both of you to move on. Maybe you guys can accomplish more when apart than when you were together.

discostu · **Posted:** Tue Oct 24, 2006 2:55 pm

I'm on they way out guys. Going to look at a house for rent (hopefully not too good to be true) in about an hour. I realized last night and this morning that sticking around this situation is really fucking it up worse.

red · **Joined:** Fri Jun 17, 2005 5:34 am **Posts:** 5009

Sorry to hear this, Stu. Take care of yourself. Make sure you're eating and sleeping and all that. There's not a lot worse than physical depression on top of relationship worries and regular depression.

Prince of Darkness · **Joined:** Mon Oct 25, 2004 11:41 am **Posts:** 11048

I like to bury myself in work.

Thinking of you bubba.

PM if you need to rant, rave or cry in private. Deena, Colin and I can send you care packages.

discostu · **Posted:** Tue Oct 24, 2006 3:58 pm

Kingfish · **Posted:** Tue Oct 24, 2006 4:02 pm

Take care brother and at least you have self-awareness about the whole situation.

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