How do you queens deal with one night stands who unfortunately have your email address and try to hook up a second time when anonymous sex was clearly the status quo after the initial encounter. I've attempted to be genteel but they are insistent on hooking up a second time. How do I tell them to fuck off without being overtly hostile?

Don't respond to his E-mails.

Was it so awful that you don't want to hook up with him again?

Straight response:

honesty and a no thank you usually works for me.

It wasn't a bad experience, but I had no interest in seeing him again.

then a bag over your head or a blindfold ought to do the trick

well. I feel discriminated against.

gloryhole that shit

Ha, you guys responded and thus you are gay

Wait...

1. It's stupid to use the term "queen" anymore.

2. I am in a committed long-term relationship, 12 years, works wonders on the issue of call backs.

Harry, some humans, regardless of orientation, are dogs. You are obviously a goose, or some other type of monogamous animal, unlike the bulk of humanity.

I don't see anything wrong with having a good time when you're not in a committed relationship.

Of course you are right... in fact, the point is to find your own way, your bliss, right? Not let convention think for you.

I just hate the "you are gay so you know about how to be a dog" mentality. Like when someone finds out you are gay and then feels the need to share their sexual secrets... or ask you who starred in old movies. Yahsuh Miss Allen, dem watermelons sho' am good.

Stereotypes suck more than gay people do.

I completely agree. I've learned to go with the flow unfortunately, otherwise, I'm labeled a "drama queen" or a "bitch" if I express my concerns about stereotyping gay people.

aren't you both of those no matter what???

j/k.