Divorce brings out the worst in people...

shiv · **Posted:** Mon Jan 29, 2007 8:00 pm

that's low.

Cap'n Squirrgle · **Posted:** Mon Jan 29, 2007 8:07 pm

[unsolicited opinion]Cap'n does not endorse the airing of dirty laundry / opening of fresh new wounds in public, unless it's between Bloor and GAR. Then it's funny. Otherwise, no.[/opinion]

ayah · **Joined:** Mon Oct 25, 2004 12:03 pm **Posts:** 6402

dignity.

cemeterypolka · **Joined:** Wed Jul 13, 2005 12:40 am **Posts:** 3473

Dalen Wrote:

So far she logged into and deleted my MySpace page, changed the password and deleted emails from my Yahoo email account (i just changed the password back and called them), and I'm pretty sure she logged in to my bank account. Yeah, i'm the fool for not changing the passwords, but jesus christ she's turning into a mental case.

Sucks to see someone you used to adore turn into a creature that you feel you will soon despise. Everything used to be cool until she found out about the new girl that's made me so happy over the past few months.

Anyone have any other fun divorce stories?

I'd cut your dick off.
No fucking remorse.

Edit: do you mean a girl you started seeing post-divorce/separation/break up or whatever? If so she can't get pissed, but I just don't advocate cheating, which is why I said what I said.

PS. I couldn't cut a dick off. I'd pass out in a pool of my own vomit if i did.

Black Magic Putin · **Posted:** Mon Jan 29, 2007 8:31 pm

I don't even know what you silly bitches are talking about most of the time anymore. Maybe I should quit the internet.

puma · **Posted:** Mon Jan 29, 2007 9:07 pm

fancypants Wrote:

Man, this board is depressing lately. Layoffs, divorce, sensei...

actually this is probably the best thing that could've happened to me - blessing in disguise. at first, i was super bummed, but i knew it was coming the past couple of months. and now, i'm on to pursue shit i've been aspiring to do for some time now.

anyway - d, sorry to hear that she went psycho on you... but please tell me you weren't cheating on her? cuz otherwise.....

bluejayway · **Posted:** Tue Jan 30, 2007 12:26 am

Even if you weren't, to have a known person lined up so quickly makes the suspicion plausible rather than crazy. She didn't attack you physically, so I'm not voting psycho yet.

MontyTheMongoose · **Posted:** Tue Jan 30, 2007 12:30 am

bluejayway Wrote:

Even if you weren't, to have a known person lined up so quickly makes the suspicion plausible rather than crazy. She didn't attack you physically, so I'm not voting psycho yet.

Dude, she deleted his myspace page. I mean, do you know what that means? Do you know how long it took D. to get into Tila "Tequila" Nguyen's top 8? Seriously... B---- went over the line with that shit.

<---------------- Still remembers when Tila was just another rack in the Playboy Special Editions. Thinks it was '99 or '00.

bluejayway · **Posted:** Tue Jan 30, 2007 12:33 am

I guess. I'm not kids these days enough to be all myspaced. Doesn't seem like too big a deal to me if your spouse, you know the one with all the promises and shit, looks to have been going behind your back. Burn stuff, crazy. Require them to re-social network - hell, he's just subjected her to dating again. Ugh.

<--- not having a good day on about 87 fronts.

MontyTheMongoose · **Posted:** Tue Jan 30, 2007 12:47 am

bluejayway Wrote:

I guess. I'm not kids these days enough to be all myspaced. Doesn't seem like too big a deal to me if your spouse, you know the one with all the promises and shit, looks to have been going behind your back. Burn stuff, crazy. Require them to re-social network - hell, he's just subjected her to dating again. Ugh.

<--- not having a good day on about 87 fronts.

Oh. I'm with ye, sister. If one is fool enough to share one's passwords with an s.o., then too slow on the switch to change 'em when things go south, 'most anything therein is fair-game. As long as girl didn't start transferring funds all willy-nilly nor spend money from an unshared account (as re: cracking the online banking), it seems an irrational, but not psychotic, response.

splates · **Posted:** Tue Jan 30, 2007 1:53 am

dalen is getting divorced?

somebody should make a weekly obner news summary thread for lazy fucks like me

Dalen · **Posted:** Tue Jan 30, 2007 2:47 am

bluejayway Wrote:

Even if you weren't, to have a known person lined up so quickly makes the suspicion plausible rather than crazy. She didn't attack you physically, so I'm not voting psycho yet.

well, you're wrong on that last bit.

Dalen · **Posted:** Tue Jan 30, 2007 2:49 am

pumachik Wrote:

fancypants Wrote:

Man, this board is depressing lately. Layoffs, divorce, sensei...

anyway - d, sorry to hear that she went psycho on you... but please tell me you weren't cheating on her? cuz otherwise.....

nope, never cheated on her the entire 11 years we were married.

ptrck · **Joined:** Wed Oct 27, 2004 10:55 pm **Posts:** 5568

OPA! Wrote:

It's always sad to see two people who loved one another at one time get vindictive and bitter.

On the other hand, Dale, her actions sort of validate your decision to make a change in your life, don't they?

So, did you cheat on her before you told her you wanted to separate?

edit: gotta read the whole thread i guess

Dalen · **Posted:** Wed Feb 07, 2007 10:59 pm

Saint Patrick Wrote:

OPA! Wrote:

It's always sad to see two people who loved one another at one time get vindictive and bitter.

On the other hand, Dale, her actions sort of validate your decision to make a change in your life, don't they?

So, did you cheat on her before you told her you wanted to separate?

nope. that's not my thing.

update (kinda): the papers are signed, and will be filed by early next week. fairly easy 'cause no kids are involved, just assets.

we haven't spoken in close to a week, and we still live in the same house. yeah, that sucks.

Black Magic Putin · **Posted:** Wed Feb 07, 2007 11:05 pm

my sister's divorce was pretty ugly, ugly enough that even I don't want to talk about it, and still your life sounds pretty fucked up. stay black.

Dalen · **Posted:** Wed Feb 07, 2007 11:54 pm

This guy has crack Wrote:

life sounds pretty fucked up. stay black.

honestly, i'm in a good place actually. it's not buggin' me as much as i thought it would, but maybe that's because i've found someone very special.

and yeah, i'm stayin' black.

Black Magic Putin · **Posted:** Wed Feb 07, 2007 11:58 pm

oh, if it's not bothering you, then die heretic scum.

Dalen · **Posted:** Thu Feb 08, 2007 12:02 am

hahahahahaha

timmyjoe42 · **Posted:** Thu Feb 08, 2007 12:23 am

wait, you are still living together?

Dalen · **Posted:** Thu Feb 08, 2007 12:46 am

yeah. shocking, i know.

not for long.

red · **Joined:** Fri Jun 17, 2005 5:34 am **Posts:** 5009

Are you two still sharing a bed/bedroom? When I was separated, we had three months between the shit hitting the fan and him moving to Seattle. One bedroom, 900 sq ft condo and two people who were miserable with each other. Not fun.

Twilightkid · **Posted:** Thu Feb 08, 2007 1:29 am

[img][340:500]http://www.moviesonline.ca/movie-gallery/albums/userpics/poster_TheBreak-UpPoster.jpg[/img]

Someone owes someone royalties.

ayah · **Joined:** Mon Oct 25, 2004 12:03 pm **Posts:** 6402

TwilightKid Wrote:

Someone owes someone royalties.

check payable to frank capra.

rogneeb · **Joined:** Mon Oct 25, 2004 1:07 pm **Posts:** 12618

just put a tape strip down the middle of the house

Divorce brings out the worst in people...

Who is online