Can I delete this?

Wow...thats rough. I have to think about this one for a bit.

sometimes i hate the internet.

sorry.

It might be the final nail in the coffin. I think she's a sweetheat and they were a fantastic couple, but she's been acting like a basketcase for the past couple weeks and things don't appear to be headed in a positive direction.

I've been playing Dr. Phil for my friend for roughly the last 10 days.

ooohhh... this is not good, but this guy really should know these things. you may need to send him a link to accompany the inevitable phone call. and this girl is probably not expecting him to see it, so she's taking advantage of that situation. he should make a pre-emptive move.

In most cases I would probably mind my own business. But since this is your best friend the rules are a bit different.

I would say that blunt is best. Something like, "It is over between you and _____." Followed by a brief "I'm sorry." Then perhaps an awkward sympathy hug ala the Hitchhiker's Guide To The Galaxy movie.

(But what the hell do I know... I don't have best friends, let alone ones who are in a messy relationship.)

God, I'm dreading this more by the second.

nope...this is clearly a move from her that she wants out, but doesn't have the guts / decency to do it right.

Seriously, you think she puts all that up, on myspace, and expects no one to notice?!

that's what i'm thinking.
my ex said she "needed to think things over" but we werne't breaking up. She then took down all my pictures, took me off the top 8 and changed her status to single.

It was her cop out way of telling me without telling me.

i don't know why you need to say anything. let them work it out on their own. doesn't sould like it will even take too long.

He's called just about every day when he's confused and discombobulated over what's going... it's an ongoing thing.

Through last week I told him to stay calm and make sure he knew what was going on before he made any decisions. He's levelheaded now and realizes most likely this isn't a relationship built for the long-term.

Given that, he should know. I'd expect the same.

he's better off knowing.

well, i will tell you this and maybe it will ease the pain. one of my friends forwarded a link to another friend that revealed that his girlfriend had taken a job as an escort. obviously it was not well-received, but the anger was channeled to the proper place and the dudes are still close bros. oh, and the link was sent to everyone he knows.

I don't know. I kind of disagree with this. Imagine the scenario where she finally dumps the dude and he is telling the story to Mr. McGee.

Friend: "Apparently she had changed all of her myspace profile stuff and took down all of the pictures of us together".

McGee: "Oh yeah. I saw that a couple weeks ago".

Friend: "What? You saw that and didn't tell me? You didn't think it was odd or significant enough to let me know".

Even though the news isn't the best, as a good friend you are somewhat obligated to say something. Something like, "hey, you know I noticed the other day that she had done such and such to her myspace profile, etc.

There is potential for this to damage their friendship if he keeps quiet. Besides, I sort of think that it's partly the purpose of a good friend. To look out for each other's best interest.

Do you know her? How about talking to her first? Tell her you noticed the Myspace thing, and don't feel right keeping it from him. If she doesn't do talk to him about it in a day or two, you tell him yourself.

You gotta be all like, "Bitch, stop playin' wit ma homey!"

Oh yeah - until this recent tempest we I considered her a friend. Not even a friend-in-law I only liked because she was dating my friend. I truly thought she was a great gal. But she done caught the crazy.

The thing is, this MySpace thing is the capper on a bunch of other weirdness and bullshit she's been perpetuating. It's not like if I did guilt her into changing things back (not going to, btw) that the root problem wouldn't creep up some other way.

Nope. This more than likely seels the deal.
Shame.

I'm with Haq on this one...if you don't say anything then you're the guy who wasn't watching out for your boy.

Your friend will respect you for telling him...I know I would.





And I have to throw out there that I am really surprised that no one has asked for a link or for you to post this new photo yet. Just sayin'.

I think you need to grab another chick and a bag full of sex toys and go over to her house for a face to face (or ass to mouth) conversation about this...

yeah it sounds like a ripe time for a hatefuck.

I work next to a girl who is on Myspace all fucking day and she uses it as a means of hooking up. This is clearly a move that she's getting out there.


Tell your buddy. At least he can be pissed off when the break happens rather than not knowing where things stand, etc.

You need to tell him to grow some balls and tell this bitch to kick rocks.

He'll hate hearing it and probably won't listen but if she's already checked out of the relationship there's nothing he can do anyway and he'll eventually get over it.

Sorry man. I've been dealing with the same girl in my office for a month now in a similar respect. She got dumped and has been the most miserable, lonely, depressed person ever. Oh and completely psychotic to the point of suggesting a "stake out" to see if the person is seeing someone. The heart can make you do fucked up stuff.

I'm with me on this one too. What did I say?

we should leave her comments.

Apparently what Joe said. Haq & Heg kinda look the same I guess.

To the surprise of no one, I concur.


But, Chad's not that type of guy. So, just tell him. But, take him to a bar first. EVERYTHING is better with alcohol.

I just don't think he could stand himself had he actually admitted to agreeing with something I said.