Well... it's probably because I am actually old enough to have been to Big Sur during the beatnik/hippie highpoints...
Big Sur, truly, is the most beautiful place on earth to me, if you get it on in good weather. I hike in it about 15 times a year... my favorite hikes in California. Best short hike in the US at Garapata... up a redwood draw, with streams and cactus and Zen-like topography, and then up to Rocky Ridge with a view up and down the coast.
Longer hike back from Big Sur proper (the state park) to Sikes Hot Springs... about 15 miles back from the road... where there are pools of hot mineral water in rock pools next to the river... lots of naked college kids and drugs...
Andrew Molera State Park another great relatively short hike-loop (8 miles?) with spectacular views of the coast.
Big Sur River Inn has little cabins, and a nice bar, and will put chairs right in the middle of the Big Sur River and serve drinks as you listen to primo cool jazz or drum circles... lots of locals selling 'shrooms and truly lovely young women with loose peasant blouses and morals.
Nepenthe is the restaurant with a great view... thousand feet up above the crashing waves... again, with the 19 year old beatnik girls who will be open minded about your intentions... or simply serve you great wine as the Basho peaceful atmosphere makes you suddenly get why Henry Miller knew what he was talking about (his "library" is an interesting stop several miles south... and has readings of international authors and concerts of bands you know)...
Five Star Michelin Guide dining at both Ventana Inn and Post Inn.... the last has rooms hanging in rocks on the cliffs with sod roofs.... but go for $400-600 a night... Ventana especially has world-class food...
A little south is the Esalen retreat where there are hot springs, also hanging right on the cliffs about the ocean, and naked people walking around, it was the launching pad for Fritz Perl and the whole human potential movement, and the echoes of Huxley, Bucky Fuller, Maslow, Tillich on and on... lots of people getting in touch with their inner demons and peace and getting massages and laid.
Julia Burns Pfeiffer State Park, further south, has a waterfall spilling out, fifty feet above a perfect little beach... unique and worth a stop.
In addition to the naked young things fucking and taking drugs... there are a couple truly spriitual places... both of which you will let you stay overnight or longer.... the Tassajara Zen Center... back in the Ventana Wilderness... very, very peaceful... and the Carmoldi Hermitage... a revived medieval order of contemplative monks living high on a ridge above the ocean. If you stay there don't go in the back where you'll see some of the holy silent brothers smoking Camels.
Big Sur has everything one needs to find all you know, and all you need to know.
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