The Obner Divorce Curse Strikes Again

FT · **Posted:** Mon Aug 01, 2011 3:38 pm

Fryxell Wrote:

That's what I thought, too. I caught her cheating on me with an old boyfriend and she told me she hasn't been in love with me for years. She is refusing to seek any help, but is a very loving and attentive mother. This shit has been going on for 2 months now and she's still seeing that dude. I tried everything I could to make her happy, but she just doesn't want to be with me anymore. I gotta move on and do my best to raise these girls the right way. I know I can do it.

let me know if you ever want to talk, man...

as bad as my situation was (and, in many ways, still is), it truly pales by comparison. i can't even imagine what you're going through.

Cap'n Squirrgle · **Posted:** Mon Aug 01, 2011 5:13 pm

Holy fucking shit. I am so incredibly sorry.

shiv · **Posted:** Tue Aug 02, 2011 12:56 am

rogneeb Wrote:

shiv Wrote:

jesus. that's the worst one yet.

is that a challenge?

i'm sure if anyone could top it, you could.

catswilleatyou · **Posted:** Tue Aug 02, 2011 12:52 pm

Fuuuuck. This one is brutal. Sorry to hear this Fryxell. You deserve and will find better.

two guns holla · **Posted:** Tue Aug 02, 2011 2:01 pm

Shit man, sorry to hear that.

Yail Bloor · **Posted:** Tue Aug 02, 2011 7:11 pm

shiv Wrote:

rogneeb Wrote:

shiv Wrote:

jesus. that's the worst one yet.

is that a challenge?

i'm sure if anyone could top it, you could.

Much needed levity.

Sketch · **Posted:** Wed Aug 03, 2011 6:21 am

Take care of yourself, Fryx. Big love.

Black Magic Putin · **Posted:** Wed Aug 03, 2011 8:01 am

Sketch Wrote:

Take care of yourself, Fryx. Big love.

You want him to get 3 MORE wives? This is horrible advice.

Sketch · **Posted:** Wed Aug 03, 2011 9:41 am

Black Magic Putin Wrote:

Sketch Wrote:

Take care of yourself, Fryx. Big love.

You want him to get 3 MORE wives? This is horrible advice.

I'd settle for one wife three times the size, but I'm not sure if that's his thing.

Dalen · **Posted:** Wed Aug 03, 2011 1:55 pm

take her out for dinner just one more time.

FT · **Posted:** Wed Aug 03, 2011 4:19 pm

Dalen Wrote:

take her out for dinner just one more time.

big dave yoda talkin has one of the better stories like this that i've heard

he caught wind that the girl he was dating at the time was going to dump him, so he took her out for an extravagant dinner, ordered up expensive wine, etc., then right before the check came he "went to the restroom" never to return

genius

catswilleatyou · **Posted:** Wed Aug 03, 2011 5:23 pm

I was always a fan of this "caught wife cheating" reaction

robotboy · **Posted:** Wed Aug 03, 2011 5:32 pm

take her out to dinner then drop her off at a train station

Cap'n Squirrgle · **Posted:** Wed Aug 03, 2011 5:41 pm

ha ha ha

Fryxell · **Posted:** Sat Aug 06, 2011 2:51 am

Thank you all for the kind words (and levity). Unfortunately, we're both still living under the same roof for the time being. She's trying her best to drive me out of the house with her actions and words, but I'm not abandoning my girls for anything. I am getting some small measure of joy with each phone call I receive from her friends after she's broken the news. So far the common themes are "what the fuck - is she for real?" and "you need to fight for full custody."

Dalen · **Posted:** Sat Aug 06, 2011 10:04 am

Fryxell Wrote:

So far the common themes are "what the fuck - is she for real?" and "you need to fight for full custody."

i agree with this.

discostu · **Posted:** Sun Aug 07, 2011 9:34 am

Dalen Wrote:

Fryxell Wrote:

So far the common themes are "what the fuck - is she for real?" and "you need to fight for full custody."

i agree with this.

Same here. She's already shown she's reckless and irresponsible. Fryxell, I've been in a similar home-life situation, albeit with no kids or marriage involved, and because of that I was probably feeling only 1/10 of of the soul-crushing you're going through, but I came out a much better Man and person because of it, which led me into the ability to be fit enough to be married to another human. I wish for you the same or better level of upside out of a rough period.

FT · **Posted:** Wed Oct 05, 2011 11:57 am

Finally have some good news to post to this thread. Looks like I've finally found a new FShe.

It's still early, but looks promising.

Cap'n Squirrgle · **Posted:** Wed Oct 05, 2011 12:01 pm

Bob, did you learn nothing last time? Don't pop your good news load too early dammit.

Dalen · **Posted:** Wed Oct 05, 2011 12:07 pm

worst thread to announce a new fling.

Cap'n Squirrgle · **Posted:** Wed Oct 05, 2011 12:10 pm

also, that

FT · **Posted:** Wed Oct 05, 2011 12:21 pm

FT Wrote:

Finally have some good news to post to this thread. Looks like I've finally found a new FShe.

It's still early, but looks promising.

nobody · **Posted:** Wed Oct 05, 2011 12:21 pm

And here I was hoping someone else got divorced.

FT · **Posted:** Wed Oct 05, 2011 12:22 pm

Cap'n Squirrgle Wrote:

Bob, did you learn nothing last time? Don't pop your good news load too early dammit.

Yeah, I forgot about that.

And to Dalen's point, I just figured it made more sense to bring it full circle here, instead of starting yet another LOOK AT ME thread (like so many times I've done before).

FT · **Posted:** Wed Oct 05, 2011 12:22 pm

nobody Wrote:

And here I was hoping someone else got divorced.

OK, now that's funny!

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