Why, o' why?

Postmersh · **Posted:** Wed Apr 20, 2005 5:05 pm

pumachik Wrote:

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Therefore I decided that I give up on dating entirely.

I read an article about that in Time - it's called "hooking up" now, as in "would you like to hook up for dinner sometime"...

Stone red's dark sunshine · **Joined:** Mon Oct 25, 2004 2:17 pm **Posts:** 1096

pumachik Wrote:

timmyjoe42 Wrote:

you need to make your move right when you decide you like him

why is it that guys complain girls don't hit on them, so when we do, and we make our move- they freak out? i'm aggressive (to a certain extent) and i want someone, i go for it. they end up being weird about it though b/c they're "not used to girls hitting on them or making the first move." hel-LO we don't live in the 50s anymore!

so i say fuck it. you all say you want a cool girl who's smart and independent and isn't needy, then when you do get her- you get intimidated. pussies. then you just end up going for the ditsy gold-digging sluts.

seriously. :roll:

That's why I say a lot of guys suck. But some of us don't go for the ditsy gold-digging sluts. I certainly welcome a female making the first move.

puma · **Posted:** Wed Apr 20, 2005 5:27 pm

or how about those retards who come crawling back to you after they realize what dumbasses they were... but it's always too late.

i say burn em all to the ground.

(as you can see, i'm sooo not bitter.

)

Yail Bloor · **Posted:** Wed Apr 20, 2005 5:31 pm

Y'all could all use a little piece of Yail........

[img][365:500]http://img163.echo.cx/img163/926/self10142ap.jpg[/img]

Careful though, its hot. :pimp:

fancypants · **Posted:** Wed Apr 20, 2005 5:32 pm

pumachik Wrote:

timmyjoe42 Wrote:

you need to make your move right when you decide you like him

why is it that guys complain girls don't hit on them, so when we do, and we make our move- they freak out? i'm aggressive (to a certain extent) and i want someone, i go for it. they end up being weird about it though b/c they're "not used to girls hitting on them or making the first move." hel-LO we don't live in the 50s anymore!

so i say fuck it. you all say you want a cool girl who's smart and independent and isn't needy, then when you do get her- you get intimidated. pussies. then you just end up going for the ditsy gold-digging sluts.

seriously. :roll:

I not only am okay with girls hitting on me, I pretty much depend on it.

<--shy

daystar · **Joined:** Sun Apr 17, 2005 10:14 pm **Posts:** 3298

Yail Bloor Wrote:

Y'all could all use a little piece of Yail........

[img][365:500]http://img163.echo.cx/img163/926/self10142ap.jpg[/img]

Careful though, its hot. :pimp:

<gulp> yikes!

puma · **Posted:** Wed Apr 20, 2005 5:47 pm

Yail Bloor Wrote:

Y'all could all use a little piece of Yail........

[img][365:500]http://img163.echo.cx/img163/926/self10142ap.jpg[/img]

Careful though, its hot. :pimp:

i like to play with fire.

Cotton · **Joined:** Mon Oct 25, 2004 6:12 pm **Posts:** 17155

pumachik Wrote:

you all say you want a cool girl who's smart and independent and isn't needy, then when you do get her- you get intimidated. pussies.

not me! I cling to that shit like salsa rio doritos! I know when i got a good thing, goddamnit. Also, I'm a complete retard for her.

Tania you just need to grab that girl by the head and push her out of your way. Or start calling her "Jilly the filly" and writing it on men's room stalls in the greater L.A. area. Leave the proliferation of internet slurs to me.

...and tommy's "amigo please" made me laugh really loud for some reason. i'm not used to the heat yet.

Aural Fixation · **Posted:** Wed Apr 20, 2005 6:20 pm

Radcliffe Wrote:

Aural Fixation Wrote:

'Sides, how can you have sex with a girl named "Jilly"? "Ohhhhhhh, Jilly....ohhhh yes, Jilly." Hell no, it just doesn't work.

"Take that, Jilly! Who's yer daddy, Jilly?! Back that thang up, Jilly!"

... yeh, actually it seems to work pretty fine.

You're supposed to be on my side, dammit! *waving fist*

Cotton · **Joined:** Mon Oct 25, 2004 6:12 pm **Posts:** 17155

Yail Bloor Wrote:

Y'all could all use a little piece of Yail........

[img][365:500]http://img163.echo.cx/img163/926/self10142ap.jpg[/img]

the expresison on yr face here is awesome.

Yail Bloor · **Posted:** Wed Apr 20, 2005 6:40 pm

pumachik Wrote:

i like to play with fire.

I'm just sayin dri, I'm just sayin........

MontyTheMongoose · **Posted:** Wed Apr 20, 2005 7:38 pm

Yail Bloor Wrote:

pumachik Wrote:

i like to play with fire.

I'm just sayin dri, I'm just sayin........

Doesn't Georgia have laws against the sort of endeavour you are encouraging and implying?

TinyE · **Posted:** Wed Apr 20, 2005 8:17 pm

pumachik Wrote:

And then there's those guys I date that freak out, disappear, and then end up calling me again. I'm sorry I'm not going to be into you when it's convienent for you. Fuck that.

Therefore I decided that I give up on dating entirely.

Welcome to My World...

ayah · **Joined:** Mon Oct 25, 2004 12:03 pm **Posts:** 6402

TinyE Wrote:

pumachik Wrote:

And then there's those guys I date that freak out, disappear, and then end up calling me again. I'm sorry I'm not going to be into you when it's convienent for you. Fuck that.

Therefore I decided that I give up on dating entirely.

Welcome to My World...

welcome to me.

Aural Fixation · **Posted:** Wed Apr 20, 2005 10:03 pm

My boyfriend would dump me, get married to someone else -- a year later, he would come around looking for "great sex cuz my wife doesn't satisfy me like you did".

Yeah, whatever. You had your chance, buddy...now, you get to dream about the great sex you used to have.

This scenario happened about three times with separate boyfriends.

Btw, don't get me started on the whole "fat girl" issue.

bluejayway · **Posted:** Wed Apr 20, 2005 10:13 pm

There are few things skeevier than the tendency of dudes I knew and/or dated before their marriage hitting on me subsequently on the grounds that 'I've always loved you!'

Well, then, why did I have to buy you two an oil and vinegar set, you know? I mean, not that I'd have you, but surely marriage to this other lady must have seemed like a bad idea at the time, what with the pining.

I'm sure girls are no better, but I had a spate of that with guys a year or two ago and they would get all upset with me when I called them on this, like I owed them ten minutes in the sack because they were mad at their wife. Ugh.

Aural Fixation · **Posted:** Wed Apr 20, 2005 10:27 pm

bluejayway Wrote:

There are few things skeevier than the tendency of dudes I knew and/or dated before their marriage hitting on me subsequently on the grounds that 'I've always loved you!'

Well, then, why did I have to buy you two an oil and vinegar set, you know? I mean, not that I'd have you, but surely marriage to this other lady must have seemed like a bad idea at the time, what with the pining.

I'm sure girls are no better, but I had a spate of that with guys a year or two ago and they would get all upset with me when I called them on this, like I owed them ten minutes in the sack because they were mad at their wife. Ugh.

Hahahaha! Did we date the same guys? "She doesn't understand me like you...She's not as cool as you...She's not as smart as you...She's not..." Yeah yeah...you made your bed, blah blah blah.

bluejayway · **Posted:** Wed Apr 20, 2005 10:36 pm

Ick ick ick. And so unsexy. Plus, in at least one case I had told the guy (who I had never dated and would never date) that he was a fool to marry this woman and he quoted John Frigging Donne 'the heart has reasons which reason cannot measure blah blah' at me about his big love (while, remember, he secretly luuuuved me, according to the story now--I'm insulted he thinks I'm dumb enough to buy this). And now he's all, 'she just uses me for sperm and money' whine whine whine.

To answer the original question, it's cause they ramp up their pheromones or something as they're getting interested in gettin gjiggy with jilly or whatever, and you pick up on it. My theory, at least. Sigh.

bluejayway · **Posted:** Wed Apr 20, 2005 10:43 pm

Excuse me. Google advises it's Pascal. I'm sure the dude in question said Donne at the time, but it's been seven or eight years.

Cotton · **Joined:** Mon Oct 25, 2004 6:12 pm **Posts:** 17155

jeez where are you ladies gettin' these freaks?

Senator LooGAR · **Posted:** Wed Apr 20, 2005 11:18 pm

Cotton Wrote:

jeez where are you ladies gettin' these freaks?

Yeah, any dude you hit on that doesn't respond = GAY.

Charli · **Posted:** Wed Apr 20, 2005 11:25 pm

I think this thread needs a spinoff thread of Dating Do's and Dont's. Or "run if a guy/girl says/does..".

My god I could come up with one hell of a list. lol

pollysix · **Joined:** Tue Oct 26, 2004 2:56 am **Posts:** 5174

Aural, hun, I'm sorry you're dealing with this shit.

If it helps any... a friend of mine told me that her therapist said:

"50% of the people that come and see me are dealing with problems because they're not in a relationship, and the other 50% come to see me because they are in a relationship."

Puts some perspective on it eh?

:roll:

pollysix · **Joined:** Tue Oct 26, 2004 2:56 am **Posts:** 5174

Oh yeah... and Aural... when all else fails... http://www.obner.org/bb/viewtopic.php?t=6384

Finch Platte · **Posted:** Wed Apr 20, 2005 11:54 pm

Wow, what a great thread- thanks T.

Wanna go out?

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